A 1:1 Chat with Anita — Your Professional Matchmaker
A 1:1 Chat with Anita — Your Professional Matchmaker
In our conversation with Anita, she blends warmth, intuition, and cultural insight to create a thoughtful approach to personalized matchmaking. With a background in coaching, education, and global nonprofit work, she brings deep curiosity and care to every match. Her respect for Jewish values and individual stories helps clients feel seen, supported, and empowered to build meaningful, lasting connections.
Interview Questions & Answers
Get to Know Your Matchmaker
“How did you become a matchmaker?”
I became a life coach through iPEC and came across a job posting about becoming a matchmaker. It felt like a perfect fit for me.”
"Can you describe your matchmaking style?"
“My style is organic. I approach matchmaking with curiosity, meeting clients where they are and looking for windows of opportunity, areas where they are flexible, while also respecting their boundaries and what does not work for them. I listen closely and take it all in.”
"What’s the one question you ask matchmaking clients to narrow down their must-haves in a potential partner?"
“I ask them to identify one thing they cannot live with and one thing they cannot live without.”
"Is there a corresponding question or answer you are looking for from matches that clarifies they may be a good match for your client?"
“I look for openness and shared values. When people express openness to meeting and share core values, that signals strong potential.”
"What is the best conversation starter you’ve ever used or received?"
“What inspires you to wake up in the morning? What lights you up?”
"What is something that you wish more people asked on first dates?"
“What brings you joy?”
“What do you think increases the likelihood of a second date?”
“A feeling of mutual connection, genuine curiosity, and shared enthusiasm.”“When the goodbye feels too soon.”
“What is a small dating gesture that instantly makes you feel appreciated?”
“When someone puts their phone away and is fully present. Quality time speaks volumes.”
"If someone is debating whether to use a matchmaker, how do you guide them?"
“I start by asking about their expectations. Those who are open to the process and willing to learn are the most likely to find success.”
"How do you vet or screen potential matches?"
“I first look for matches based on the demographic criteria specified by my clients. Then I have a call with each prospect to get a sense of their values, energy, and lifestyle. I focus on finding alignment across these areas.”
"What is the key quality someone should look for in a matchmaker?"
“A great matchmaker is a good listener who is open-minded, nonjudgmental, and genuinely curious about people. They also know how to hear feedback and adjust their approach as needed.”
"How do you know when it is time to introduce a new match to your client?"
“I introduce a new match when I find someone who shares my client’s values, has a similar outlook on life, and has commonalities in lifestyle.”
"Do you specialize in a particular type of client or relationship goal?"
“I enjoy working with clients from all backgrounds and feel especially skilled at helping people become better daters. I love encouraging clients to get curious and connect with what makes them feel relaxed, present, and fun.”
"What is your favorite thing about being a matchmaker?"
“People! I love meeting new individuals and helping them uncover any barriers they might have to love. I especially appreciate the depth and nuance of this work—there is never a dull moment.”
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Common questions about Jdate matchmaking
Frequently Asked Questions
We understand you might have questions about our service. Here are answers to what people typically ask:
What makes Jdate Matchmaking different from dating websites?
Instead of swiping alone, your personal Matchmaker is like a teammate, helping find quality matches to arranging introductions via quick, easy video dates. All you have to do is focus on making meaningful connections.
I'm not comfortable with technology. Is this for me?
Absolutely. Our platform is designed to be easy and intuitive no matter how tech-savvy you are.
How do you verify members?
Matchmakers personally interview every match they recommend, to make sure their profiles are accurate and authentic.
How does the video meeting process work?
We arrange comfortable video conversations from your home. Just sit back, relax, and let your Matchmaker find people to introduce you to.
What kind of support do you provide?
You receive:
• Personal guidance from your dedicated Matchmaker
• Regular communication on how the search is going
• Ongoing support and feedback on dates
How long does it typically take to meet people?
Everyone's journey is different, and we focus on quality over speed. Your Matchmaker will work at a pace that feels comfortable for you.
Who is this service for?
Jdate Matchmaking is primarily for busy professionals that want to find love with the help of a dedicated matchmaker with access to the largest database of elite singles.
What are the next steps after I purchase Jdate Matchmaking?
After purchasing Jdate Matchmaking, our matchmaker will arrange an intake call with you. This is to better comprehend your preferences and the type of person you're interested in meeting.
Is the setup process and matchmaking questions time-consuming?
The setup process is straightforward and efficient. It involves filling out your profile and preferences, then speaking with the matchmaker for the formal intake process, which typically takes between 30-45 minutes.
Can I specify particular attributes or interests for my matches?
Absolutely. During your conversation with the elite matchmaker, you'll have the opportunity to define specific attributes and interests you're looking for in potential matches.
Can I adjust my preferences after starting the service?
Certainly. It's common for clients to refine their preferences as they progress. Your matchmaker will work closely with you, noting what is and isn't effective in your search for your ideal match.
How does the matchmaker determine suitable matches for me?
Our experienced matchmakers consider your preferences, interests, and core values when interviewing potential prospects to assess compatibility and find your ideal match.
What happens if I don't get any matches I like?
If no matches are found, we'll reevaluate your preferences and collaborate with you to potentially broaden the pool of potential matches.
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